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May 05 2025

Overcome Work Anxiety: Emma’s story from Burnout to Balance

Emma’s story of learning to overcome work anxiety with CBT therapy reflects a common struggle among professional women in 2025. At 35, this marketing professional found herself trapped in a cycle of constant email checking, perfectionism, and inability to disconnect from work. Her journey to recovery offers valuable insights for anyone looking to break free […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Behavioral Cognitive Therapy, Blog, People pleasing, Perfectionism · Tagged: People-Pleasing, perfectionism

Nov 20 2024

Self-Acceptance and Motivation: Why Ambition Alone Isn’t Enough

I often think back to my years in London — a city full of energy, ambition and the constant feeling that something bigger was always possible. As someone naturally driven and goal-oriented, I loved that environment. It felt exciting, stimulating and full of momentum. But there’s another side to that kind of environment that people […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Blog, Developing self-compassion, Perfectionism · Tagged: self-criticism

Oct 29 2024

Understanding Core Beliefs

core beliefs

Understanding Core Beliefs: The Invisible Forces That Shape Our Lives Core beliefs are foundational ideas deeply rooted within us, guiding how we perceive ourselves, others, and the world around us. Often formed during childhood or in response to significant life events, these beliefs act as a mental lens that colors how we interpret each experience, […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Behavioral Cognitive Therapy, Blog, Childhood Trauma, People pleasing, Perfectionism · Tagged: Cognitive Restructuring, Core Beliefs, self-compassion

Oct 28 2024

The Impact of Living with Perfectionism

Striving to meet high standards is often seen as a recipe for success, motivation, and self-improvement. However, the nature of these standards—whether they’re realistic and flexible or rigid and unattainable—can shape their impact on your life. When these standards are healthy, they can lead to personal growth and satisfaction, but when they are overly demanding, […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Behavioral Cognitive Therapy, Blog, Perfectionism · Tagged: high standards, perfectionism, self-criticism

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