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Apr 27 2025

How to Overcome Workplace People-Pleasing in 2026

The pressure to overcome workplace people-pleasing in 2025 has reached new heights as professional environments continue to evolve. With the rise of hybrid work models and always-on digital culture, learning to set healthy boundaries while maintaining professional relationships has become more crucial than ever. The Evolution of Workplace People-Pleasing As a CBT therapist specializing in […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Assertive Communication, Behavioral Cognitive Therapy, Blog, Developing self-compassion, Mindfulness Techniques, People pleasing

Nov 20 2024

Self-Acceptance and Motivation: Why Ambition Alone Isn’t Enough

I often think back to my years in London — a city full of energy, ambition and the constant feeling that something bigger was always possible. As someone naturally driven and goal-oriented, I loved that environment. It felt exciting, stimulating and full of momentum. But there’s another side to that kind of environment that people […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Blog, Developing self-compassion, Perfectionism · Tagged: self-criticism

Oct 29 2024

Breaking Free from the People-Pleasing Trap

A Step-by-Step Guide to Embracing Self-Worth and Let Go of People-Pleasing Do you ever feel caught in the cycle of people-pleasing, even after all the self-reflection and work you’ve put in? You’re not alone. In my previous blog post, I talk about core beliefs and how to identify them. In this post, I want to […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Assertive Communication, Blog, Childhood Trauma, Developing self-compassion, People pleasing · Tagged: confidence coaching, People-Pleasing

Oct 28 2024

Let’s Talk About the High Standards We Set for Ourselves

We all have standards—expectations we set that shape how we approach our lives and influence how we measure our own success. Standards can range from being timely, achieving specific goals, or maintaining certain levels of interaction with family and friends. These standards essentially function as guidelines, helping us navigate the complexities of daily life. At […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Behavioral Cognitive Therapy, Blog, Developing self-compassion · Tagged: anxiety, high standards, perfectionism

Oct 03 2024

From Self-Doubt to Self-Discovery

people pleaser battling with self-doubt at a crossroad to find self discovery

I think a lot of people misunderstand self-doubt. They treat it like a flaw.A lack of confidence.A mindset issue. But honestly, in my experience, self-doubt often has much deeper roots than that. A lot of people who struggle with self-doubt are not incapable, lazy or weak. They’re simply disconnected from themselves. Disconnected from: their own […]

Written by Ludovica Colella · Categorized: Blog, Developing self-compassion, People pleasing · Tagged: Mindfulness

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